Politics at the Thanksgiving Table?
Does political talk go well with turkey, dressing and pumpkin pie? Or does it just make for a dyspeptic holiday?
As you celebrate the Thanksgiving Day holiday this year, consider the the following. The next time you do so, the 2012 presidential election campaign will have just ended.
So for those inclined to campaign at the Thanksgiving table, 2011 is it. But is that a good idea? Stories of political arguments ruining holiday gatherings are the stuff of many family legends.
Whether you are host or guest, do you favor or dread political conversation over Thanksgiving Dinner? Let us know by voting in our poll and sharing your experiences and your advice here.
Meg Beattie Patrick
9:40 pm on Wednesday, November 23, 2011
It's in some etiquette book somewhere that all talk of money, sex and politics should be avoided at any dinner party. I guess that includes Thanksgiving dinner. Easier said than done!
Rev. Susan Gillespie
8:35 am on Thursday, November 24, 2011
You'll never change anyone's mind in front of an audience. Let it go.....
John Fonseca
8:58 am on Thursday, November 24, 2011
Used to sometimes be a "problem" with my mother in law, but the last time we attempted to get into it we ended up agreeing that government on both sides of the aisle is ineffective and the argument quickly dissipated into a cloud of disappointment. Sigh...
Susan1
9:12 am on Thursday, November 24, 2011
I find it best to follow the advice given to Eliza Doolittle in "My Fair Lady": stick to the weather and the state of everyone's health.
Don
2:39 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
On Thanksgiving.. very good advice..
Kirby Ehret
9:49 am on Thursday, November 24, 2011
It is always fun to bring up the double dipping by people like Joe D and other scamers.
Kirby Ehret
10:09 am on Thursday, November 24, 2011
For real fun ask a question about what will Obama do wrong next . The problem is the list is so long that your guest might spend the night .
MillerTime
6:34 pm on Thursday, November 24, 2011
As long as you want Obama gone, speak up!
Belleville Sentinel
8:23 pm on Thursday, November 24, 2011
Perhaps you should take a look at: http://whattheheckhasobamadonesofar.com/ before being critical of our President. And so much more substantive change would have been accomplished to date if President Obama didn't have to deal with an insanely recalcitrant House.
MillerTime
9:37 pm on Thursday, November 24, 2011
If you are from Belleville why do you read a Millburn-Short Hills website? By the way, Obama has always been extremely critical of Bush (not that I am a giant Bush fan) .I just find his blame game politics disgusting and non-Presidential. Clinton showed a lot more Presidential class until.. well..you know.
John Fonseca
11:20 pm on Thursday, November 24, 2011
Mr. Time,
This is an AOL website, and they're located in Virginia.
Don
10:28 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Not far from other shadowy acronymic organizations.
Geoff Gove
10:09 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
If you are from Millburn,why do you read the Bloomfield Patch site?
Mary Mann
11:59 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Geoff, This story is posted across a number of Essex County Patch sites. So folks are reading it on Bloomfield Patch as well as Millburn Patch. We've also got it on Maplewood Patch.
Steve Mershon
12:10 pm on Thursday, December 1, 2011
Perhaps, in addition to displaying a commenter's name, each comment could display the town where they live. It would also be nice, as others have indicated, if each article had a tag indicating whether it was a "local" or "regional" article.
Don
1:38 pm on Thursday, December 1, 2011
Mary, is there any resource for visitors (non-Patch folk) to be able to know what the "topology" of a story's posting is? - for example, I have noticed the same stories are often posted to many, many Patch sites but the responses to a story in one area are not visible to the readers in another area. Is there any method to the madness, so to speak?
Also, I think that Patch should disclose more about how their system works, its design goals, and also that Patch staff should disclose where they acually live (just the town is fine) - I don't have a problem with Patch editors working in several editor positions or far away from where they edit, (Almost anything that makes web work viable for people economically in these tough economic times is good) but I do think they should disclose the basic facts - and be able to disclose an alternative contact method.. Also it bothers me the way that their contact methods (including a "smart phone" which AOL evidently pays for) feeds wholly via Patch which is a red flag for me- re privacy..
I hope I don't have to go into a lengthy explanation of the issue. People often go to the media in attempts to resolve local issues, so its scary when access to those (local or not) reporters is filtered and their locations, even, potentially tracked.
Also Google AOL and censorship.
Geoff Gove
12:18 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
How about a little tag next to the pieces that deal with our town so we can focus on issues that our neighbors care about -- sort of like those at Huffpo.
Mary Mann
1:09 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
I think that's a great idea. I'll send a note to the product people. In the meantime, maybe there's a way that we can do that within the body of the article.
Don
2:38 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
Each site's topics are listed under /topics, so for example..
http://mylittletown.patch.com/topics/
Geoff Gove
2:48 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
Looking under topics/Bloomfield, I still find a grab bag form many towns in area. Only the Places link seems to stick to Bloomfield shops.